Is This All There Is? How to Stop Wasting Time and Start Living
What if tomorrow was your last day? What would you think about right now?
We don’t often dwell on the things we’ve achieved—the balances in our bank accounts, the investments that made us money. Instead, it’s the moments we missed and the people we could have become.
It’s a sobering thought. But it’s never too late to change. You can start today, right now, to shape the life you’ve always wanted and I’m going to teach you how.
What You’ll Find Here:
In this edition, you’ll learn how to stop wasting time and start living with purpose:
The 3 corners of a balanced life
Best Questions to ask that will bring you the most value.
Eisenhower Matrix to Manage your time and priorities
Tips to Live with Intention and make every moment count.
Plus, Podcasts to Power Your Week
The Secret to Living a Fulfilling Life is to Balance Your Priorities
Living a life of purpose comes down to three things—career, relationships, and health. When each corner is nurtured, they come together to form something strong and stable. But if one corner falters, the entire structure crumbles.
Your Work/Money Stuff: This gives you the freedom to enjoy life, but it shouldn't take over everything. Try to find work that actually means something to you, not just a way to pay the bills.
Your People: Your relationships with family and friends are HUGE. Investing time in those connections that lift you up and support you is so important. Nothing beats those deep, real connections with people you care about.
You and Your Well-being: Without your health – both physical and mental – everything else becomes way harder. So, take care of yourself and don't forget to keep learning and growing.
For me, living a life of purpose has meant embracing the Free Nomad lifestyle—traveling the world, earning passively through crypto, and seeing the beauty in simplicity. This freedom is available to you, too. If this sounds interesting, I can teach you how to get started! Let’s start a conversation:
Take a moment to reflect: Where do you currently stand in each of these key areas?
The Most Powerful Thing You Can Do is Ask Better Questions
A huge part of living a life of purpose is learning to ask the right questions. Good questions lead to better answers, and better answers lead to better decisions.
Shift your perspective with these powerful questions:
Instead of: "What should I do today?" Ask: "What is the one thing I can do today that will move me closer to my most important goal?"
Instead of: "What tasks do I need to check off my list?" Ask: "Which of my relationships deserve my focused attention right now?"
Instead of: "What can I accomplish today?" Ask: "How can I nurture my physical, emotional, or mental well-being today?"
Let these questions challenge you to examine your priorities with greater intention.
Confront the "Silent Killer" of Progress: Ignorance
We often operate under the illusion of complete control, yet our blind spots can be significant obstacles. The car that hits you is not the one you see coming, it’s the one you didn’t notice.
In the same way, it’s the things you don’t understand, the opportunities you miss, or the habits you ignore that can truly set you back.
Here are some simple habits that you can try working on today to crash out ignorance:
Don't be afraid to ask "why," "how," and "what if." Embrace a childlike curiosity about the world around you.
Step outside your comfort zone and explore unfamiliar topics, ideas, and experiences.
Schedule specific time slots for reading, online courses, podcasts, or other learning activities.
Talk to people with different backgrounds, experiences, and opinions.
Leverage online courses, educational apps, and online communities to expand your learning opportunities.
Don't be afraid to say "I don't know." This is the first step towards learning.
Look at everyday objects and routines from new angles to spark fresh insights.
Time Management: Eisenhower Matrix
You can schedule every second of your day, but if you’re focusing on the wrong things, you’re just spinning your wheels. I learned this the hard way when travelling and working.
The key is managing priorities. And yes, you’ll have to make tough choices along the way, but those choices will lead you to the life you truly want.
The Eisenhower Matrix is a powerful tool to help you prioritize effectively:
Do: Urgent and Important – Tackle these tasks immediately.
Plan: Important but Not Urgent – Schedule time to work on these proactively.
Delegate: Urgent but Not Important – See if someone else can handle these.
Eliminate: Neither Urgent nor Important – Remove these distractions from your life.
Tips to Live with Intention and Make Every Moment Count
As a FREE nomad, the concept of intentional living is the very foundation upon which this lifestyle thrives. Here are some of the tips that helped me make every moment count in every country I travel 🙂
The Power of Long-Term Thinking
Most people chase short-term wins—making a quick buck or checking off tasks on a list. But the ones who make it long-term are those who think ahead. Long-term success always beats short-term wins.
I learned this the hard way during a personal financial crisis in 2022, when I experienced the sudden collapse of a stablecoin investment I had believed would offer me security. The loss shook me to my core, challenging my identity and how I viewed success.
At that moment, I realized that true security doesn’t come from volatile markets or quick wins. It’s found in relationships, and a sense of inner peace.
Time Is Money—But It’s More Than That
You know, time is seriously the one thing you can't get back. Once it's gone, it's gone. It's funny how we often act like we've got all the time in the world, just ticking away. But honestly, it's not just about money, it is life. That's something that really hit home for me.
I remember when I lost 600k in a single night. It was brutal. But what really messed me up was not just the money, it was realizing how much time I'd wasted chasing things that didn't actually mean anything in the long run.
That experience taught me a huge lesson: time is not something to burn through getting tasks done. It's about investing in things that truly matter like growth, the people we care about, and making positive impact
"Memento Mori" to Live Intentionally
The ancient wisdom of "Memento Mori" – remember that you will die – is not something to be scared of. Instead, it serves as a strong reminder of life's precious and finite nature. Acknowledging our mortality is finding clarity in what truly matters, not something to fear.
When I lost my financial security, I was forced to confront the impermanence of everything I had built.
Embracing Memento Mori allowed me to free myself from distractions and start living with greater intention.
When we know our time is limited, we stop chasing empty pursuits and focus on what brings us peace, joy, and fulfillment.
Embrace Experiences Over Materialism
Traveling the world has taught me a lot about freedom. But it’s not about external things. It’s about being present, truly living in the moment.
I had one of the most humbling experiences of my life in Finland. In the sauna, time slowed down.
It was a reminder that true freedom is not possessions, but experiences.
I’ve been to places with all the luxury and glamour, but nothing compared to the peace I found in the simplicity of life in Finland.
It was the same when I worked in a retirement home in Austria. Small moments matter like cutting bread into a smiley face or listening to a resident’s cherished memories. Never thought joy could be this simple.
Bonus Section: Podcasts to Inspire your Next Vacation
As a bonus point, here are some great listens dream about your next adventure:
Zero To Travel: Jason Moore's been traveling the world for 15+ years and his enthusiasm is contagious. His hour-long weekly podcasts feature amazing interviews with fellow travelers, plus practical tips on budget, safety, and working on the road.
You Should Have Been There: Really great travel tales, relaxed banter, and opinions from travel guru Simon Calder and former BBC producer Mick Webb. A funny, slightly geeky travel inspiration!
Start earning passively! Here is a free guide to The Ultimate ETF Income Blueprint to Retire Rich with Dividends. Build a monthly income stream with low-risk, high-yield ETFs for a worry-free retirement
The Time to Begin is Now
Your time is your most invaluable asset. How you choose to spend it will ultimately shape the life you lead. Don't wait for the perfect moment or until tomorrow. The most powerful time to start living intentionally is right now.
Prioritize the pillars that matter most: your career, relationships, and health. Ask insightful questions, actively combat ignorance, and make each moment count..
As Fyodor Dostoyevsky wisely said, "The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for."
What will you choose to live for, starting today?
Follow my journey worldwide on Youtube and Instagram!
📸 Instagram: @lukaswiesflecker
🐦 Twitter: @TheLuWizz
🎥 YouTube: Subscribe here
To your intentional living,
Lukas
Nice article Lukas! really enjoyed it!